Core Values: The Compass for Living and Leading Well
Core values are the internal compass that guide how we live, lead, and make decisions—especially in a world that’s overflowing with choice.
Career paths, leadership styles, business strategies, life goals—even something as simple as what to prioritise today—can feel overwhelming without a clear sense of direction.
When you know your core values—and live by them—you experience greater alignment, confidence, and peace of mind.
Why? Because choice without clarity leads to confusion.
That’s where core values come in.
Your values are the internal compass that guide your decisions, define your behaviours, and shape how you live and lead. When you know your core values—and live by them—you experience greater alignment, confidence, and peace of mind.
The Theory: Why Core Values Matter
Dr. John Demartini, one of the foremost thinkers in values-based development, describes values as the things we prioritise and give energy to—consciously or unconsciously.
His work shows that every human has a unique hierarchy of values that determines what they’re naturally inspired to do, and where they’ll feel most fulfilled.
When our work and life align with our highest values, we thrive. When we’re out of alignment, we burn out, become reactive, or feel lost.
This is why identifying and consciously living from our core values is one of the most powerful things we can do—as leaders and as human beings.
Five Practical Ways to Live and Lead from Your Core Values
1. Living Purposefully
When you’re clear on your values, decision-making becomes easier. You stop chasing every opportunity and start choosing the right ones. Living purposefully means aligning your day-to-day actions with what matters most.
It’s not about saying yes to more. It’s about saying yes to the right things.
2. Connecting Authentically
Most of us wear a mask, whether we realise it or not—at work, socially, and even at home.
But when you know your values, you become more grounded in who you are. You stop pretending. You start showing up as your true self. And that’s when authentic, lasting connection happens.
3. Leading Effectively
Leadership is rarely black and white. The best leaders navigate the grey by using their core values as a compass. Your values help you lead with consistency, clarity, and confidence—even when the right decision isn’t easy.
They help you stay calm in the storm—and lead others through it.
4. Acting Consistently
Without values, our decisions can seem inconsistent or unpredictable to others. And when your team doesn’t know what you stand for, it’s hard for them to follow.
Clear values create stable leadership. They allow others to anticipate your actions and trust your intent.
5. Sleeping Soundly, Relaxing Fully
Making values-based decisions isn’t always easy, but it’s the kind of hard that brings peace.
When you act in line with your principles—even when it’s uncomfortable—you rest easier.
You worry less. And you stop second-guessing yourself, because you know you did the right thing.
The Golden Benefit of Core Values
Ultimately, our values are what allow us to live and lead with integrity.
When we act in line with our core values, we can look the people we love most in the eye—and know they’d be proud of how we showed up.
More importantly, we can look ourselves in the mirror and say:
“I stayed true to who I am.”
Ready to Explore Your Core Values?
If you’d like help uncovering your personal or organisational core values, download my free Core Values Toolkit—packed with exercises and tools to guide you step-by-step.
You can also join me for a Values Discovery Session—an in-depth, expert-led conversation that helps you or your leadership team get crystal clear on the values that drive performance, decision-making, and culture.
Because when you lead from your values, everything changes.
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